Monday, March 31, 2008

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I think my plan is now to just give up on this whole dating thing. I don't see the point anymore. It's not worth all the hassle and anxiety. I mean, let's face it: I'm not athletic, I don't like sports, I'm not exactly good looking, I don't dress well, and I don't own a fancy, let alone any, car. Basically, I don't have anythign going for me that, in general, most women find appealing. I like to drink, read, write, watch movies, talk politics and international affairs, and other stuff like that. How fuckin' boring is that?
Naw, not worth it anymore. I've resigned myself to that. I'll end up like my cousin: in her 50s, never married, hasn't dated anybody in decades. What the hell, at least then I'm not beating myself when things don't work out the way I want them to. The anxiety and the taking things too personally is waht makes the whole dating thing too much for me.

4 comments:

HeygateLive said...

You're in a fine mood today. Good God - lots of women like guys who read, write, drink, watch movies!! I mean - just think of a certain friend of ours who does so well . . . .

Ti Christophe said...

yah, good point i suppose.

i'm in a shitty mood actually ... just kinda bummed about life in general.

Ti Christophe said...

still going to give up on dating though....

Miss Melissa said...

you have a lot to offer. stop saying that you don't.

you know that i think you are although my opinion may not merit anything as i'm the young one...

stop being so hard on yourself. don't give any female the time of day if she doesn't see otherwise, she isn't worth it. don't date someone just because or settle for second best. know what you are looking for and in the meantime do things that you enjoy.

but then again i'm single too and misrable in my social life so maybe don't listen to me afterall...